My friends encourage me to do so. I’ve kicked that idea around in my head over and over.
If I had to go through this “re-single” phase all over again, would I really want to know how bad can be? I’m not sure. Comforting to know you are not alone…………. and yet, because we are over 50, many of our lives have taken on a form that is not real condusive to letting someone new in……… many have become grandparents (not me) ………. many are settled into doing family things, or don’t like to explore new people and experience, wold rather be alone than risk being bored or uncomfortable in a social setting.
And then, with someone new, we each have to fit into their business and personal life if it is ever going to go anywhere.
But, I digress…………..back to the book… I think I am going to call it, “1000 Bad Dates” and include the experiences of others……… or perhaps, as my friends suggest, my bad dating experiences could pretty much cover most of the other folks bad dates. I’ve had a lot of laughs, some really great dates, met a lot of great people who just were not right for me …………..and met a few who broke my heart. Heartaches are good in retrospect, it opens the wound and makes us ache for the magic that heals it.
Have a bad date to share? I’m all ears, do tell. I’ll pour us a glass of wine and we’ll swap war stories. 🙂